In loving memory of our hero soto33

On 5/25/13 my young brother in law was taken from us in a violent way he was down visiting from college and at a gathering and a monster came in and took his life Father's Day is coming up and so is his bday my father in law asked that on 6/20/13 my brother in laws 21st bday is coming up and he will not be here to celebrate my father in law asked if 6/20/13 can be a no violence day I was wondering if you can give any ideas. It would help a whole lot.